So heres my thing. I just placed membership at my church. With the whole "in the middle of service announcement of my 'decision' plus the fact that I am single" and everything.
Which brings me to my problem. I love my church. I do. Everyone is friendly, and open minded. The preacher is great. (Reg Cox for those of you who know him). And I love my friends. My married friends that is.
Just last Sunday I got into a conversation with Reg, and somewhere in there I mentioned that I thought I was the only single person there. "Call me when your 40 and single" he responded.
Ok, so fair enough, I'm 27, not a big deal, and the amount of single girls at my church was never factored in my decision making. But its also a valid point. Theres not many outlets for me to meet people. Ok, well I meet tons of people when I work, but they all live across the country and I'm not about to do that.
Kelsie told me the church she attends, not far down the road, is loaded with single people my age. So MENver denver isn't so MENver after all.
But I just placed membership. I can't just bail. And it would be for the wrong reasons anyway, right? I would just split time in between the two, but when your only there one sunday a month, thats like once every two months....
So right now I'm thinking of going to our small group at Lakewood on tuesdays, and maybe splitting time on sundays...or just going to Saturday night service at Kelsies church...I dunno.